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MORBID THREAD TEIM!
Have you experienced death in your family, partners, or god forbid children?

How did you cope?

A session today brought up a lot of things regarding the subject I hoped I'd forgotten, that's apparently one of the 'roots' of me being ill.
What about you guys?
(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:51, archived)
GOOD LORD!

(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:52, archived)
Why aren't you at a, no doubt, hillarious night at the George?
In fact, why aren't most of you who I've noted go there?
(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)
because I'm at home ROFLL!l1!lliving with me MAM!LOL!l1O!L!
also I have appointments every other day here now so I can't nip down to london for a week to see my friends there.
(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:54, archived)
Why doesn't Mykey shout at you for living with your mother?
I'm going to move in with my mum to avoid people talking about me living with my mum.
It appears to be the only solution.
Offline.
(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
I dunno actually
he's probably terrified that my geordie dad doesn't approve of Warcraft either.

He has a thing with geordies I think.
(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
He's very fat.

(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
yes, he is
really really tremendously large.
(I helped save b3ta! hexachordal la la la la la, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:04, archived)
I'm not there because I'm ill
And because I'm not there, it's almost inevitably shit.
(I helped save b3ta! hexachordal la la la la la, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
It's shit all of the time, I've been told.

(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:56, archived)
Click "i like this" if you think JMG has a small willy, is spotty and fat and lives with his mum
*teehee*
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:52, archived)
Listen. Just because I didn't like the children's movie you went to see, shouldn't make you upset at me, Leatherface.

(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)
:)

(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:54, archived)
That changes everything.
A smiley. There is now no way that you could be upset, because you've posted a smiley.
I honestly wish some of you were web-cammed up.
(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
hahaha
I am, if you're interested.
(I helped save b3ta! hexachordal la la la la la, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
No thank you.

(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:58, archived)
I'm going out in a moment.
In the car.
(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
oh go on
it he birthday!
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
Have you switched to Red Indian?
IT. HE. BIG UM BIRTHDAY.
ME. HEAP TAN.
(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:01, archived)
*ACTUALLY LOLLED*

(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:03, archived)
heh heh
native american is the more acceptable term
(I helped save b3ta! Wildheart Baby. Drunken Mess In A Good Way, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:16, archived)
PUT SHOE ON HEAD

(I helped save b3ta! ArthurTheRat, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:00, archived)
i'M NEVER UPSET AT YOU JMG!
I get it, you're consistent, and in this crazy, unpredictable world that shall be your BOON
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:58, archived)
I am but i'm in my PJs and they're pink

(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:02, archived)
*Fans self*
Golly!
(I helped save b3ta! Jam Master Geordie Hero of B3ta., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:03, archived)
oh come on guys you know you shouldn't have clicked that!

(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
Bloody hell you're dull.
Are you trying to take over from Parrot, have you been informed of him retiring or something and are in the process of a hand over period?
(I helped save b3ta! magnum, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
haha!

(I helped save b3ta! hexachordal la la la la la, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:58, archived)
I'm only having a piss about magners!
NOBODY BULLIES JMG!
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
Machadaynu, daynu, daaaaaaaynu.

(I helped save b3ta! (|D[ekionplexis B3ta.com: fictional child porn is OK, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:52, archived)
machadaynu daynu daynu

(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)
Maaaaaahadaynu, Immadaynu.a..machdaynu..daynuuu..daynuuu
Tetro, Tetro, Tero.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Uuuuuughhh-UAAAAAAAH!
(I helped save b3ta! (|D[ekionplexis B3ta.com: fictional child porn is OK, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)
Ahbadanis, Abatetkhrum. Abatetro tetro tet...

(I helped save b3ta! hexachordal la la la la la, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:58, archived)
bing bang bong
TURTLERAPE!
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:00, archived)
I fear death.

(I helped save b3ta! rosie posie tingly bongly, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:52, archived)
I fear fearing death :O

(I helped save b3ta! postal ninja has Transmissible spongiform encephalopathies, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
sometime i really welcome it, i would be really annoyed if there was life after death
i would say no thank you
(TheFallGuy doesn't it?!, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)

If there is life after death i would need alot of bullets.
(I helped save b3ta! postal ninja has Transmissible spongiform encephalopathies, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
i believe that when i did i rot away in to the earth and get absorbed into other stuff and recycled

i think thats the vegtable grower in me coming through
(TheFallGuy doesn't it?!, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:01, archived)
Children of the corn.

(I helped save b3ta! postal ninja has Transmissible spongiform encephalopathies, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:03, archived)
you don't say no to the big green space octopus

(I helped save b3ta! cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
I experienced the murder of a cat.
My little brother named our white cat apple.
(I helped save b3ta! postal ninja has Transmissible spongiform encephalopathies, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)

www.b3ta.com/talk/4585065
(I helped save b3ta! postal ninja has Transmissible spongiform encephalopathies, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
Grandad, age 5.
I recently inherited his watch. It's poignant, to say the least. And a great Uncle, just recently. I dread the death of family members, I care about them far too much.
(I helped save b3ta! jim_bob can herd cats., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)

experienced
caused
(I helped save b3ta! cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)
Hammy died.
I cried, I cried.
(I helped save b3ta! MrA, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:53, archived)
Hammy died.
I fried, I fried.
(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:54, archived)
pfft

(I helped save b3ta! MrA, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:28, archived)
My grandfather died some months ago.
And for some reason I can't understand, my grieving process was "Oh, that's sad" and then I just carried on.

I can't understand quite why I did that, but it's just me.

Oh well.
(I helped save b3ta! WHARRGARBL, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:54, archived)
I did that with a similar thing when I was 14
and apparently not doing anything about it and ignoring it all has pushed it to the back of my mind and stuff.
(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:56, archived)
My mum goes "it's your condition"
Personally, I think it's just me.
(I helped save b3ta! WHARRGARBL, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
oh god
I lost 5 family members/friends when i was 13 and didn't cry a single tear!

WILL I GET ALL FUCKED UP NOW?
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
You'll turn into me.
I'd stock up on skinny jeans
(I helped save b3ta! WHARRGARBL, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
I want to turn into you.
Sorry, not turn, come. I get easily confused.
(I helped save b3ta! hexachordal la la la la la, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:03, archived)
if you dont show grief it means you really didnt like them

(I helped save b3ta! cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:02, archived)
I find that oddly offensive.
I did like him, and I think you've got very little right to imply otherwise.

If you didn't mean it that way, I apologise.
(I helped save b3ta! WHARRGARBL, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:04, archived)
nope.

(I helped save b3ta! Sir Sand GOBLIN ^popular page dis, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
*decides not to answer question*
*dances instead*
(I helped save b3ta! Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
*Dances along*

(I helped save b3ta! postal ninja has Transmissible spongiform encephalopathies, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:05, archived)
My granny died
when I was five. I remember there being cake.
(I helped save b3ta! Comma, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:55, archived)
Lots of people crying
Is what I remember most. Oh, and traffic cones, for some reason.
(I helped save b3ta! jim_bob can herd cats., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:56, archived)
I have not beeen the same since my grandad died in the summer
I was in greece at the time and i never said goodbye to him

I still miss him, i want to be a great success, like he was
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:56, archived)
He perfected his tan?

(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:58, archived)
Am I the only one who appreciates the irony of the last line of your post and your name and sig?


"I still miss him, i want to be a great success, like he was
SickRik LOVES THE COCK"
(I helped save b3ta! mns 2️⃣2️⃣9️⃣0️⃣7️⃣, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
*genuine lol*
AND NO MOO HE DID NOT PERFECT HIS TAN!
(I helped save b3ta! SickRik float like a camembert sting like a brie, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:10, archived)
I didn't cry until we started singing 'All Things Bright And Beautiful'.
Damnit.
(I helped save b3ta! ArthurTheRat, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:56, archived)
aww.

(I helped save b3ta! moohalaa, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
sort of
www.b3ta.com/questions/deadbodies/post125030
(I helped save b3ta! Blue Star was working part time at the 5 and Dime, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
you can fear it, accept it, suppress thoughts of it, or entertain fantasies of avoiding it
but it's a'coming for ya and it's gonna get ya
(I helped save b3ta! cumquat may will not be commenting further on the allegations, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
Death is something a little too close to my heart at the moment.

(I helped save b3ta! mcdoof fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:57, archived)
angina?

(I helped save b3ta! Sir Sand GOBLIN ^popular page dis, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:01, archived)
Nah.
www.b3ta.com/talk/4577430
(I helped save b3ta! mcdoof fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:03, archived)
that is crap
:(
(I helped save b3ta! Sir Sand GOBLIN ^popular page dis, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:12, archived)
Yes
and I'm not.
(I helped save b3ta! vulga is a foul mouthed cunt, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:58, archived)
*hug*

(allergic to curry, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:02, archived)
I went to a funeral of someone I didn't like.
I got a free lunch afterwards.
(I helped save b3ta! Pope Shax XIII uses Visio for picture editing, does it show?, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 21:59, archived)
A great-uncle I was never allowed to meet died a couple week ago.
That's nearly everybody from my mum's side, which is bittersweet. I know she only kept me away from them for my own good, because some of them were admittedly really horrid people, but there also feels like a big hole that I can't even talk about around my mum.

As the only heir (ha ha, nothing to inherit but debts), my mum is finally free of the obligation to be a carer now that they're dead. I'm happy to see her being freed of responsibility and guilt, which in a way cancels out the regret that I didn't get to know all of them very well.

Her brother died a couple years ago, and I never saw him once until I was 18. Then he took me to Coney Island in New York and I broke years of vegetarianism to have a hot dog. He was trying to learn photography so he took pictures of me looking really awkward on the beach. The next time I saw him was two years later, in a casket, dead of multiple cancers. His drunken friends ruined the funeral by insulting the priest's accent.

My mum's father died either when I was 9 or 12. He fell down the steps in front of our house when I was nine and went into a coma that lasted three and a half years. I have one really good memory of him, and it's doing Polish folk dance with him when I was about five years old. I was grumpy and sweaty and this festival but he was able to coax me into a polka.

As for my dad's side, I grew up around them so it was really tough when my grandfather died a couple years ago. He pretty much sacrificed everything so that my dad could get a quality education, which is what enabled me to live a good life. I would not be where I am were it not for my grandad having scrimped and saved every penny, even after he was crippled by polio, so that when my dad had the opportunity to go to an excellent university there was money for him to do so. He was brilliant. At his funeral, I made the decision to disown my only two first cousins for the disrespect they showed, not realise that they owed everything to that man. I don't regret that decision at all.
(I helped save b3ta! KersaI Missive Free Michael Shields! with Monday's Liverpool Echo, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:00, archived)
my grandpa died
he was pretty awesome
the funeral was a bit traumatic, mostly because my dad was weeping and it made me think about how i'd be at his funeral
(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:00, archived)
yes, I have
there's a QOTW answer on my profile all about it.
Although not morbid as such, every time someone says a family member is ill (proper ill, not flu) then I check my dark suit is ready for wear and not at the dry cleaners
(Dangermouse., Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:00, archived)
My great grandmother
and a great uncle. Only the coffin being lowered brought me to tears.
(I helped save b3ta! Wildheart Baby. Drunken Mess In A Good Way, Tue 11 Mar 2008, 22:01, archived)