Our local club
Was full of sluts who just walked around kissing as many guys as they could to see who got the highest total. They were happy to grope them on the dance floor but as soon as they groped back they were crying rape.
( Peej, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:01, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

I had the profound misfortune to walk into a club which was holding an Ann Summers night.
Drunk women can be every bit as sexually aggressive and boorish as drunk men.

It's not an exaggeration to say that I had to actively fight my way back out.

In fact, I'd go as far as to say that with an equal societal objectification of men as sex objects in the same way that women have been in the past, and given equal physical strength, I think rape cases would be much more equal than they are.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:07, Reply)

Worse in a lot of cases.

( girlinthehole, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:10, Reply)

Argument by annecdote is the best type of argument.

(Bazongaloid, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:10, Reply)

I'm not arguing.

( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:14, Reply)

This is true
An acquaintance of my wife was having her hen night in a club we happened to be in and they had a male stripper. The bride to be started sucking him off. I remember thinking the husband to be wouldn't want to marry her anymore if he knew. Next day she put pictures of herself doing it on her facebook! Some people deserve each other I guess.
( Peej, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:14, Reply)

wtf
that shit always baffles me.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:15, Reply)

I was hosting a hen party a couple of weekends ago
and they had a naked waiter there. I couldn't look him in the eye. He had a nice bum though. OBJECTIFICATION!
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:19, Reply)

friend of mine had specifically said she didn't want anything of that sort at her hen do
and her best friends got one anyway. Really spoilt things. The dumb bitches.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:21, Reply)

yeah this whole party was a surprise for her, she nearly fainted when I said she was going to be learning pole dancing
I think she thought I was going to strip, but on the feedback form at the end she wrote that she really enjoyed it, it wasn't at all as she'd expected and she had a lot of fun. The naked waiter was also really gay.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:33, Reply)

I specifically told my mates I didn't want any of that shit
So they took me paintballing and then got me wasted. Brilliant time!
( Peej, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:34, Reply)

I've told most of my mates that I can't stand the ritual humiliation shit
and most agree. I'll be fucking put out if they try anything.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:36, Reply)

I've said that
No veils, no L plates, no cock straws. I plan to go to Vegas in a cocktail dress.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:49, Reply)

OVER RULED!
Oh, thought this was Phoenix Wright.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:24, Reply)

OBJECTION
I love his hair.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:32, Reply)

Crazy world
She was fat too. Nothing puts you off your pint like watching a sweaty fat slut suck off a stripper.
( Peej, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:20, Reply)

It has reminded me of an incident in a club some years ago
where my mate and I noticed a girl giving a guy the most frantic handjob ever. It was hilarious.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:23, Reply)

I saw a girl sandwiched between two guys, one had his hand down her knickers
and the other and both his up her top. She looked like she was having a great time.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:24, Reply)

There's a photo from a club I used to go to
on one of those 'faces in places' sites and there's a girl sat with her legs apart and a guy with his hand right up there, I lolled.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:34, Reply)

Or the queue starting to form behind him.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:00, Reply)

Really?
WOW! That's a lot more slutty than I was! Maybe they had an agreement and the groom to be was allowed to play with his stripper too.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:23, Reply)

men don't mind being raped though

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:18, Reply)

You're probably not being serious
but that is an attitude that really fucking winds me up.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:20, Reply)

How do you rape a man, anyway?

(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:24, Reply)

Woman and Man in bed together
She wants sex, he says No. Next morning, he wakes up to find her riding his morning wood. That would be rape.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:27, Reply)

Never thought of that
but I bet next morning, when she's riding him, he's more than happy about it. He probably said no because he was tired, anyway. Otherwise, why would the be sleeping together?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:30, Reply)

So he loves it really, eh?
I've heard that exact terminology used in man on woman rape.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:31, Reply)

There's some caselaw on 4 feminists who raped someone they perceived to be a chauvenist (think Chompy)
they tied him up and stuffed a bottle up his arse for a for a few hours.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:36, Reply)

I think under that sort of threat
I would consider suspending my "never hit a woman" rule.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:38, Reply)

Yeah I think that's what we would call extenuating circumstances

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:39, Reply)

Wait, were they fit?
Oh, you said "feminists", ignore my question.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:40, Reply)

I saw that on an eppisode of Law'n'Order.... true story.

( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:46, Reply)

Shut your whore mouth

(PsychoChomp, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:50, Reply)

Apple said to me the other day "shut your mouth before I fuck it"
It shocked me into silence
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:57, Reply)

"Shut that cunt's mouth before I come over there and fuckstart her head!"
One of my favourite lines from a film.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:00, Reply)

that's excellent
what's it from?
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:03, Reply)

Way of the Gun
A thoroughly brilliant film, well worth your time. It's in my Top 10.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:11, Reply)

I'll check it out

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:15, Reply)

I've slept in a bed with females I would not want to fuck
If I woke up to one of them riding me I'd be very fucking angry.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:37, Reply)

LOOK I SAID I WAS SORRY

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:39, Reply)

Ha! In your dreams!

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:42, Reply)

You're not funny.

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:49, Reply)

Well, you make me feel bad now
but sometimes I've been told that he was too tired to start, and in the morning I've woken him up with a "good morning bj" and there was never a complain. Did I do it wrong? Should I stop it?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:41, Reply)

it depends on the circumstances
if he told you he was too tired then fine, but if he just said no, without a reason, and you started anyway without first getting permission then you could be in trouble.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:42, Reply)

But then
you're killing the surprise! (I'm just joking there)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:45, Reply)

:-)
I'd be happy enough, but there are situations where that isn't always the case.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:47, Reply)

I know
I think I got it right every time, as I've got no complains!

To be honest, sometimes I've been told no because we were friends and the guy didn't want to break the friendship, but after a bit of talking and touching he'd change his mind, and the frienships are still there!
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

rape doesn't usually involve much in the way of talking
edit: actually, it might, I've never been on either end of a rape
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:54, Reply)

'either end' made me laugh
I'm a bit ashamed.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:58, Reply)

I think you're right
I don't know much about it either.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:00, Reply)

If he was genuine about being too tired, then no you did nothing wrong
If he said "Thanks, but I want us to just be friends" then that's different.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:43, Reply)

Well, I've got that too
and he only needed a bit of convincing, really. And after that, he'd want to repeat.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:46, Reply)

if you're already in a relationship then it's not rape it's surprise sex
and I can't ever see Wiggy accusing me of raping him.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:50, Reply)

Agreed!

(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:52, Reply)

only because you are too ugly to give him wood

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

he said this to me yesterday
I'm sure you two are in cahoots.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:58, Reply)

we have to be
we're setting up a timeshare
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:59, Reply)

Chain him to a radiator and forcefeed him Viagra, not let him out for several days
Unfortunately, that happened.
(Edit: possibly. Trying to find a reliable newssource)
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:48, Reply)

how is Crow?

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:49, Reply)

Unraped and unsecured to his tree.
Is just pretty busy with work and stuff.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

busy with work?
for shame!

how are you?
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

I know, I've not seen him since Saturday :(((
I'm ok, slowly recovering from exhausting myself, just need to look for a flat and a job. Urgh. How long to go on your secondment?
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:59, Reply)

only 3 weeks left!
the final two weeks I've got a guaranteed non-shit car as well which is nice.

What sort of job and flat are you looking for?
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:02, Reply)

That's not too bad, I'm sure everything will seem better
then you have September to look forward to

1. 2 bed, SE London, not more than 135£ pppw
2. Anthing that will give me money, as I have none.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:06, Reply)

yeah, it's going ok
work is alright at the moment actually, other than the boredom today.

man, London is expensive.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:07, Reply)

me, trolling?

( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:37, Reply)

I know. As if!

( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:56, Reply)

Say that to people in prison

( Peej, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:21, Reply)

Problem with raping men
is that the man, somehow, has to want to make it work, you know?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:22, Reply)

Apart from anal rape of course
What you really mean is "The problem with raping men is that you're raping MEN and they're all ugly and smell, women are far hotter so it makes more sense to rape them up."
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:24, Reply)

Hahaha
Maybe...

But for a woman to anal rape a man doesn't really give much sexual pleasure, unless she's into dominatrix stuff.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:25, Reply)

Rape's mostly about power, not pleasure.

( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:26, Reply)

Maybe
that's why there are more male rapists than female
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:30, Reply)

Like I said, I think if sexual objectification had been more historically equal
and if physical strength were more equal, so would the statistics.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:32, Reply)

I've got pretty strong now (thanks to my super slutty dancing)
Maybe I'll put my raping hat on.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:37, Reply)

Who said rape has to be about the rapist taking physical pleasure in it?
Some might just get off on the humiliation and degradation.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:26, Reply)

Ok
I don't quite get it. I suppose it doesn't make any sense to me to get any rewarding feeling from someone feeling bad.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:31, Reply)

Me either
That is why neither you nor I are rapists.
( Kroney, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:32, Reply)

Thanks for the explanation
I feel much better now.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:41, Reply)

Because you're not a sadist

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:33, Reply)

As I said to Kroney

(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:41, Reply)