What mystifies me about the opposite sex
Is still why so many women like to be treated like shit. I see it every day, men talking to their partners like they are shit on the bottom of their hi-tecs and they lap it up.
( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:00, 7 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I fell into this trap because the sex was incredibly good and I was having fun (initially).
I have since wised up.
( crackhouseceilidhband Fuck off back to Mumsnet, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:02, Reply)

At least you had a reason
I fell into this trap just because I was stupid and felt sorry for the bastard.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:23, Reply)

If you have low self esteem
already, it's easy to fall into, especially if they interject it with lavish and unrealistic compliments
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:03, Reply)

'Nice guys' are dull.
If the woman feels she is the dominant one in the relationship (evidenced by the chap running around after her, being polite all the time etc.), this can cost the man the woman's respect. If she feels she's the one who's lucky to have the man (rather than the other way round), this can be reinforced by the fellow not being considerate etc - it suggests he's not that fussed which is for some stupid reason attractive. Pathetic isn't it?


*hits wife with iron*
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:04, Reply)

I try and treat my wife well whilst at the same time attempting to be the dominant one
it's not working
( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:08, Reply)

stupid caveman instincts

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:08, Reply)

Sad but true.

( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:11, Reply)

Because bitches be crazy, yo.
I actually had this discussion with a girl yesterday. She said she wants to like nice guys, but she finds the consideration and the sensitivity and all that unmanly. She can get that stuff from her girlfriends and she wants a man to be different.

They don't necessarily want a man to treat them like shit, they want men to be men, I guess. I suppose the ones who treat women like shit are usually also the sort that are cock-of-the-walk and so come aross as the strong, rough and ready type.
( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:09, Reply)

If women want manly men
How come I get told to shave off my beard and wash occasionally and to stop drinking so much. Fucking women can't have it both ways.
( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:13, Reply)

I've seen films that suggest you may not be 100% correct here.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:14, Reply)

Backdoor sluts 9?

( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:17, Reply)

Double Plugging 4

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:18, Reply)

Backdoor Sluts 9 makes Crotch Capers 3 look like Naughty Nurses 2!

( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:18, Reply)

Lampito's debut!

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:24, Reply)

haha

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:18, Reply)

Then tell her so.
And tell her to fuck off. Tell her you can either drink at home with her, or drink at the pub with your mates and if she doesn't like it, she knows where the door is.

And if she does use the door, frankly it sounds like you'd be better off.

/unwantedopinionblog.
( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:15, Reply)

You forgot the bit about giving her a slap

( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:16, Reply)

Men don't hit women.

( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:17, Reply)

Unless it's in self-defence

( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:18, Reply)

Or if it's because you love them so much that it makes you crazy.

( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:18, Reply)

Or if you reckon she's checking out other guys.

( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:18, Reply)

Or if you can convince her to tell people that she walked into a door.

( Kroney, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:21, Reply)

Unless they burn the toast

( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:19, Reply)

rappers do

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:19, Reply)

I've had many an arguement with an Irish acquaintance who is obsessed with Chris Brown
She doesn't give a shit that he's a cuntfaced, woman beater.
( Peej, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:20, Reply)

I have it on good authority that many of the old blues artists were horrible, drunken old cunts.
Their records are still great and, like your friend, I really don't care about their private lives, to be honest.

Ike Turner was a musical genius, despite whupping Tina's ass on the regular.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:34, Reply)

it is true that overly sensitive men are not sexy
in that macho way that lots of women do like.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:20, Reply)

Hmm.
My ex wife fucked off using the "you're too nice" excuse. Then complained bitterly (to me) that the bloke she fucked off with was an irrational bastard and emotional fuckup.

Still, she's dead now what with all the nasty brain cancer and stuff.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:36, Reply)

Daddy issues?

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:26, Reply)

I have no idea
it bewilders me. Why would anyone want someone who treats them like shit?
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 15 Jul 2011, 12:42, Reply)