Teenage woes part 2!
In a follow up to part one...

To everyone who said he's an immature little prick who's acting possessive.... You were right.

We were both at a party of a mutual friend last night, not completely ignoring each other, but not engaging in conversation either. That was fine. However, some of my friends like to smoke weed. Occasionally, so do I. The friends who do smoke weed are very very close friends of mine who I have been leaning on a lot this past couple of weeks, so when they decided to go upstairs and get the pipe going I followed them up.

This did not make him happy. He texts me (mm, mature of you) saying
"Weed? You disgust me. Grow a fucking spine. Don't text me"
According to a friend who tried to talk him out of this, he hates me and plans on never speaking to me again. Because I kissed a boy and had a bit of weed. I should point out that a lot of his friends smoke weed as well and he's never had a problem with it. It's an issue because it's me and he apparently still feels like he should be controlling my life.

Luckily, my friends are the best ever and are going out of their way to make things work for me. Nick is just going to be consigned to the immature douche pile.

Being 17 is a bit shit. Everyone around you acts like 17 year olds!

Now to resist sinking to his level and texting him back telling him what a cowardly little idiot he is....
(Holy Gabrielle is Holy, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 2:37, 42 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Hey Gabs,
don't let him irritate you. Easier said than done (believe me, I KNOW!)

After what we gazzed about, the best thing right now is to just ignore him. Take the high road and no matter what, do NOT let him make you feel like shit (again, easier said than done...sorry....).

Stay strong and hang in there.

xx
( Batshitmentalist is sane for once, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 4:50, Reply)

Hey there
That's my plan. I felt like shit last night after his little outburst. Now I'm just focussing on moving on to a lovely shiny happy life that doesn't include him. Taking the high road is what I'm trying to do - if I start retaliating the whole situation will descend very quickly into a much nastier mess.

Thanks for the advice as always :)

xx
(Holy Gabrielle is Holy, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 5:07, Reply)

Gabs
Expect Chocolate from me.

Expect it soon. Okay? Okay.
Much love and hugs from me. He's a douche. Nuff said.
(Poppet some assembly required., Thu 12 Feb 2009, 5:33, Reply)

Hello Holy
unfortunately welcome to the maelstrom of "what the fuck?" that is a stroppy teenage boy with more hormones than braincells.

We get better around 27 or so.

Honest.
(Halfy By light alone, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:17, Reply)

what an anus
while I tried to take the balanced view before and thought it might just be because it's difficult for him to I now hold up my hands and admit I was wrong.

He's shown his true colours, and you need to acknowledge that you are better off without him, and whatever you do, don't let this spoil your time at uni.

Without wanting to put an extra dampner on things, it seems that if he is acting like this now then he might try and bugger with some new relationships (friends or more) when you get to uni. Something to look out for.

Edit: Halfy is right. Maturity won't arrive for him for a good number of years yet.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:31, Reply)

We get better around 27 or so.
Hahahahahahhahaha






Sorry!
( girlinthehole, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:33, Reply)

whereas women mature and are adults at 15
then have a slow steady decline back to childhood and lusty hormones eh BGB?
(Halfy By light alone, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:37, Reply)

No Halfy.
Not all women. Only me : )
( girlinthehole, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:39, Reply)

I finally grew up a bit
at 31.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:40, Reply)

Bah!
If he says anything again, cunt him in the fuck!

Alternatively, he told you to 'grow a spine', so why not take his? Just use a claw hammer, a hacksaw and a lot of ropes to tie him down!
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:43, Reply)

Rope's too good for the likes of him!
Barbed wire! Dipped in chilis!

*froth*
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 8:48, Reply)

Damn, if only you were english!
I'd suggest putting him on an upside down car roof and pushing him down a hill....too soon?
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 9:24, Reply)

Sickipedia says no.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 9:24, Reply)

Yep!
I admit, I've stolen the idea from there :D

I have not shame in admitting I'm not funny!
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 9:30, Reply)

I remember when I was 17. What an utter utter cock-end I was.

Well I'm 24 now and err... still a real prick.. Hmm..
( whenanimalsattackhumans clad in global hypercolour, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 9:57, Reply)

big yawns!
Break out the razor blades!!!

And spare us all a 'part 3' please.
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 10:35, Reply)

@gab
Make sure you keep a copy of all of this and read back on it in a few years. You'll laugh and wonder if life was really like that.

(35 and still waiting to grow up. Think it happens in April)
( I have run out of coke is a little sweaty, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 10:49, Reply)

Spiceypickle
I wondered why I could see this cock end posting again, then I remembered I had been grown up and took the (very few) I had on ignore off. And now I know why he was on ignore. Gabrielle- we are interested, so ignore cock boy IRL, and the other cock-boy on here.
( Duke Of Belmsford has got 99 records, but Jay-Z ain't one, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 12:12, Reply)

Duke
I was on ignore? I'm a cock end?

Your words cut me like an emo's razor.
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 12:16, Reply)

BANG THE IGNORE DRUM!
Heh I've always wanted to say that.

I agree with the good Duke though... any opportunity to think of creative insults for life's flangeweasels is fine by me.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 12:37, Reply)

Bah!
Ignore Spike, the baldy cunt, tee hee.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 12:41, Reply)

An apology of sorts to Holy
I'm not really nasty and I should have just glanced over this and not commented but I don't believe this is the sort of place to make posts like this - thats just my opinion.

I was 17 once but never had the power of the internet to make posts like this. Perhaps I would have done but I like to think not (AA did though!)

Anyway, if you makes you feel better then that can only be a good thing so keep everyone updated and I'll just keep me little comments to myself.
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 12:49, Reply)

Spike
I'm not a big fan of the bloggy posts either. But it's always fun to point and laugh and call people names :)
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 13:01, Reply)

As far as I'm concerned people can post whatever the hell they want on here
it's called off topic because the posts are not on topic

if someone wants to ask for advice, the way she did then what's the harm?

no one is forcing anyone to read anything.

now recommend me a toaster bitch!
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 13:46, Reply)

plus the thought of all those nubile 17yo's is good fuel for the carousel.
*fwaps*
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 13:48, Reply)

good fuel for the carousel?
I like it
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 13:56, Reply)

The Wankers Carousel
some folk call it the wank bank but the carousel is so much more elegant.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 14:02, Reply)

it certainly is
and elegance is vitally important when referring to the masturbatory arts ;-)
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 14:08, Reply)

After reading the phrase on here
I now typically refer to it as the W drive.

And I have even remapped my network share of porn so it's under W:\ !
(Son of Sam-i-am We're all as mad as hatters here, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 14:11, Reply)

nice

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 14:18, Reply)

Sam
That idea is hereby stolen.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 14:19, Reply)

and this thread hijacked
by wankers!
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 14:35, Reply)

To be fair,
People should be allowed to post whatever they want on /offtopic.

However! They must appreciate the ramifications which will undoubtedly involve bad language and mockage.
( whenanimalsattackhumans clad in global hypercolour, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:20, Reply)

and
wanking!
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:33, Reply)

baz, have you been drunk all week?
sounds like it ;-)
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:36, Reply)

He's Irish
What do you expect?
(Son of Sam-i-am We're all as mad as hatters here, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:41, Reply)

im pretty much drunk all of the time.
Needing to top up soon though.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:42, Reply)

yeah
I need to start my weekend

not sure I can handle the next half hour here....
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:46, Reply)

hour and a half for me
but I live 15 minutes walk from work and there's an offie on the way - think I should be ok.


Sobriety...

*fears*
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 15:48, Reply)

sms
post his mobile number on here, and we'll all text him
( sandettie light vessel automatic New Twitter - @bollocksreally, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 16:09, Reply)

Cocking hell
Was Myspace shut today or something?
( Bert Monkeysex is waiting for the mods to delete him, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 18:06, Reply)

Hmm
I'd say that he's definately a dickhead.... Best not to text him or anything. If you realy have to shout at him then I'd go for doing it to his face... but at the end of the day there's no point. Do that and he'll just wrap it into his own personal worldveiw where he's massively hard done by or something so meh... Oh and

"Being 17 is a bit shit. Everyone around you acts like 17 year olds!"
Get used to it. I'm 23 and people still haven't stopped acting like 17 year olds. Even myself from time to time unfortunately....
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Thu 12 Feb 2009, 18:16, Reply)