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(, Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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and good lord the costs just keep adding up, Visa £38, Malarial drugs £60, suncream/mossie spray etc £30, wedding ring, flowers for the mothers...all on top of the cost of the engagemnet ring and honeymoon.
What has worked out ridiculously expensive for you recently?
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 11:59, 160 replies, latest was 16 years ago)
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:01, Reply)
To be honest I have such an appaling memory when I'm drinking that I will be careful as I want to remember the day!
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I told Wiggy he'd need jabs for Thailand, so we're not going. Hmph. We also can't afford it, but I like to blame it on him being a pussy.
I haven't had anything ridiculously expensive recently, I've been really good at not spending the pennies on crap. I'm still paying off my credit card mistakes from my early twenties though, so that's working out pretty expensive with all the interest. Stupid irresponsible youth.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:07, Reply)
Honeymoon is two weeks in Tanzania and Zanzibar, bit of beach and a bit of Safari.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:09, Reply)
I'd love to do a safari type holiday. I wanna see giraffes.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:13, Reply)
It was so pretty, it looked like it had been designed as a Disney character, all big eyes and long eyelashes.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:14, Reply)
I didn't have any for Bangkok.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:11, Reply)
which I've already had (the jab, not the disease before you all start). I had loads when I went to China, Hep B and C I think, yellow fever and rabies. I'm so full of cure.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:14, Reply)
We didn't need any, but were told that if we were planning to go out of the city we'd have to get them.
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Although I don't know prices yet, I know it won't be cheap.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:09, Reply)
is my most expensive vice. Drinking all of Friday & Saturday can easily approach £200.
Apart from that, my driving lessons are £108 a month, the theory test was £30 odd, fuck knows what the test will cost, and I don't even own a car yet. That is going to be one expensive motherfucker - the actual car, insurance for a young male, road tax, MOT's, maintenance, fuel oh jesus christ I'm going to be poor forever.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:15, Reply)
i've been having theory classes for about 3 months (after having booked the course 4 months before that), so I only have five months left to complete the theory test, take enough practical lessons, and the exam.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:19, Reply)
I just got a DVD and crammed in the week leading up to the test. Passed easily!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:30, Reply)
but I'm also studying in a different language
makes things a bit more difficult
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:39, Reply)
that I don't do anything like that anymore unless it's a very special occasion.
But last year I spent a ludicrous amount on drink, really really stupid. I'm not even well off! It was essentially my disposable income in it's entirity.
In fact these days I like to get shitfaced probably once a month at a cost of about £70.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:28, Reply)
but £70 put into context at an average of £3 per drink that's 22 drinks and change left over for a kebab, just sounds plain dangerous to me.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:32, Reply)
I mean I'm a pretty heavy drinker, if on a proper lash I'll probably have eighteen drinks or so, perhaps more, but I'd spend max £35. Though that will generally include drinks had at pre-lash, which are mixed from my own bottles (still less expensive)
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:49, Reply)
quite a lot of course, but I get the feeling I give out more drinks than I'm receiving back. Anyway I'm dealing with the health aspects but the money hurts just as much.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:55, Reply)
in favour of drinking small amounts and smoking loads of spliffs
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:21, Reply)
My friend has worked out hat her diet Coke habit probably approaches £400 a year.
I managed to go shopping and not buy anything yesterday, though :D
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:17, Reply)
when around 17.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:30, Reply)
I mean, it's good, but it's not THAT good.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:34, Reply)
my 3-things-I'll-never-do have not been broken.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:36, Reply)
Admittedly I was in a bad place (literally and metaphorically) but it lacked that something.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:35, Reply)
my train went through Milton Keynes, and the cute narcoleptic boy opposite me got off there. It raised my opinions of the place slightly.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:55, Reply)
it's the administration mostly, it's just so horrible. And the buzz just isn't worth it in my opinion.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:52, Reply)
Never wanted to.
I have snorted Absinthe though, which is a colossally stupid move.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:54, Reply)
Felt like I'd been nasally raped by a rhino with deep heat smeared on his cock. One eye went bloodshot too.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:57, Reply)
similar effect
more sugary and thick though, so it takes longer to act
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:58, Reply)
It makes my eyes water just thinking about it.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:00, Reply)
we were doing a thing called an apple pie where you lie on the floor and someone pours vodka and apple juice in your mouth and then squirts in squirty cream, which you then shake about in your mouth. Delicious, but sometimes ends up with vodka being poured all over your face.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:02, Reply)
Wiggy once grabbed the straw in my gin and blew bubbles in it and a single drop of gin splashed in my eye, I couldn't open it for a few minutes and it was streaming and bloodshot and it hurt like buttfuckery. Why would anyone do that voluntarily?!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:04, Reply)
to make sure nothing suspicious was going to happen
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:06, Reply)
getting married in august and costs keep mounting - we got the rings a couple of weeks ago, and they were shockingly pricey. still, we'll hopefully be wearing them for a long time to come.
it's all the fripperies that have shocked me about weddings too - flowers, cake, alcohol etc etc.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:25, Reply)
You can always sell them back. With the price of gold as it goes, you'll be making a good bussiness.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:27, Reply)
what about the price of palladium, which mr vitamin c has plumped for?!
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mitigates the cost of the mrs's one.
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(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:38, Reply)
but my engagement ring was (according to friends and my sister) very cheap, as it was under a grand. Still fucking extortionate, but it's very pretty!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:40, Reply)
that I'm Scottish. Anything that costs money is extortionate to me.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:45, Reply)
I designed my gfs ring myself, it's made of palladium and has a reasonable sized good quality diamond in it and was less than a grand. from my experience the more expensive ones are fucking hideous clusters of gaudy stones.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:42, Reply)
and it looks lovely, classy and understated, but still bloomin expensive!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:44, Reply)
But the rule that I had heard about was 3 months salary, although there was no way I was stretching that far!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:54, Reply)
as it was, it cost me probably about half of one months, and the ring couldn't be more perfect.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:57, Reply)
I'd heard the 1-3 months salary thing too, mr vitamin c heard it, went white, vowed to get a job on minimum wage for a month, then calmed down when I pointed out that a) there's no way I'd wear anything that price, and b) it's jewellers propoganda anyway. Mine was about 1/3 of his (take home) salary for a month, and it's just what I wanted.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:06, Reply)
most solitaire ones are ferociously expensive. I got a sapphire/diamond one, and when looking, found plenty of gorgeous rings which were in the 7-10 grand category. then I went all high street jewellers and found a nice one we could afford.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:51, Reply)
and that the diamond is (in my opinion) at the upper size limit of taste, I'm dubious as to whether 7-10 grand is not some kind of idiot or taste tax
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palladium doesn't need it apparently. makes me more pleased to have used that.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:04, Reply)
I spent a pleasant afternoon wandering around Hatton Gardens in the pouring rain not daring to go into any of the shops in case they arrested me for looking poor. It was quite frightening how expensive the bloody things are!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:00, Reply)
Excuse me a min...*slurps coffee*....*Spits coffee at monitor in shock*
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:57, Reply)
He claims to be saving up for it.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:53, Reply)
my dress can only be worn for one day. which is why I'm ebaying it immediately after the wedding. I did ponder wearing it for my sister's weding as it is a wedding dress after all, but fear that she would not see the funny side.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:28, Reply)
I felt bad hammering home to her that she herself had said she wasn't going to spend anywhere near that on a dress.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:31, Reply)
We see all this impressive sparkly shit and go 'Ooh that's nice, I want it, screw the price, it makes my hips look FANTASTIC!'
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:37, Reply)
and mr vit c has insisted I get it - he says he wants me to get the dress I want (within reason of course) and not to buy some cheapo one, then regret it. I thought £200 was reasonable for a dress. We argued a lot about it actually! But when I tried it on - well, I'm picking it up at the end of June I think... It's the most expensive item of clothing I will ever own, albeit only for a short time.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:38, Reply)
want her to look great, but it won't take £1200 to do so. she's planning to sell it too, but you'd still only get half of it back, at best.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:43, Reply)
so it'll only cost the price of the fabric and steel and shit, which should be under £100. It might fall apart on the day though, which would be embarrassing.
I just made my first steel boned corset and it makes my boobs look amazing. By amazing it means it looks like I actually have some.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:58, Reply)
Amorous Badger would smell the fear of acceptance and be over here in a shot to discredit me.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:12, Reply)
but the cost of the proceedings will depend entirely on whether I have managed to get into the career I want. If I have then it will be a big fancy horrible one. If I haven't then I'll have a tiny wedding with just the people I want there and very cheap.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:44, Reply)
They aren't cheap either.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:08, Reply)
if I pick the right person, and it all goes wrong then we will spend silent years hating each other and living in seperate wings of our house and having occasional icy encounters, until a charming young gardener makes us realise that we are indeed the ones for each other. Then when he leaves for university, we'll realise it was only an interlude and drift away from each other again
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:10, Reply)
I tried on a bunch of "proper" dresses in wedding shops, all of which were very expensive (£1500 minimum), or not terribly nice (£600 minimum). I swore very loudly that I would never spend as huge a sum of money as £1500 on a dress.
So I decided (egged on by my mother, who forced me to use her dressmaker instead of one of my choice) to get one made for me, in a colour that's not white, and in a style where it will be easy to take off the train and get it resewn into a cape to cover the shoulders. Something I can wear to balls and the opera etc.
Having been pressganged into using this dressmaker (who, to be fair, is fairly awesome), it's going to come out, including material, boning etc, at: £1500.
Erk.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:55, Reply)
I tried on one which would have been £900, really liked it, but went for a simpler version of it - £1500 was initially 1/4 of the budget for our whole wedding! (it's now more like 1/5, prices keep hiking everytime the folks we speak to find out we're coming from the UK)
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:03, Reply)
Running a dungeons and dragons game back home, keep picking up new handbooks when they look useful for what i'll be doing, and bits of software for mapping/campaign planning/character building etc.
Current number of books (at £10-£15 a pop): 7 (PHB 1+2, DMG 1+2, MM 1+2+3),
amount spent on software (including D&D Insider subscription): £55
Amount spent on mapping materials, paper, card, printer ink, foamboard etc: probably at least £100 (mainly due to thirsty printer), and rising.
Splitting the cost of some things with other freinds, but it still adds up to a lot in the end
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:26, Reply)
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah nerd blah blah blah blah blah geek blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah virgin.
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah £10 pocket money.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:29, Reply)
Plus savings from years of expert parent scrounging
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:31, Reply)
it's better than playing Dungeons and Dragons!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:34, Reply)
General holiday events among my friends are LAN parties, board games days, and the D&D games, keeps me in touch with them, and generally turns into a pub trip or bbq with the less geeky friends afterwards.
At least I'm not a LARPist
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:36, Reply)
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LAN party: bunch of people with computers playing games for a day (or two, or if we can get eveyone free for long enough, a week (with breaks for other things, and at least one day of doing something outside) :P), all connected, in the same room, great fun.
LARP: Live Action Role Playing: dressing up as your character then doing fighting in costume. (to quote Yahtzee) The geeks who are to most geeks what geeks are to normal people. looks fun though
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:43, Reply)
There are some astoundingly geeky (and creepy) people who do it, but most are just people out for a laugh, a fight in the woods, and plenty of booze!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:44, Reply)
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(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:51, Reply)
Plus whatever other outdoor stuff the person who's house it's at has.
Most of the gaming is on rubbish weather days or overnight.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:54, Reply)
Just extended my lunch break from revision by about half an hour, enough that there's not enough time left before my programming class to be worth doing any until this evening...
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:00, Reply)
And it's with the same bunch of people I'll be going on a walking holiday in the lake district with later in the summer, so it all evens out in the end.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:52, Reply)
I buy so many of the things, and it is a real waste of money. But they pile up and then I end up throwing some of them away anyway
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:41, Reply)
can't really handle it.
Plus although I'm pretty much fine downloading films, I feel guilty for downloading series
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:45, Reply)
i find them to be too virus-ridden - i prefer RS - at least I can scan the files as it downloads
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:45, Reply)
well maybe I should try before going on holiday. Download some stuff
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:08, Reply)
Vipros, you're either lucky, or I'm unlucky.
I also find I can get what I want much faster through RS - no relying on other people's connections
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:08, Reply)
I need an account don't I? Is it tied to a particular ip address or can it be given? (if it can be used by more than one person I shall try and get my brothers)
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:14, Reply)
you can download as a free user although it can be a pain in the bum as it only allows 1 download for every half hour or something like that.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:17, Reply)
I have a premium, and use it at home and in the office. i download a hell of a lot every month though, so i do get my money's worth.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:20, Reply)
there are plenty out there either devoted to or containing downloads for all kinds of stuff
and try not to use the account on too many computers, or it'll get blocked.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 14:16, Reply)
fucking amazon!
It's all very well pre-ordering stuff months ago, but when you completely forget about it and then just about every author and graphic novel series you're following decides to release their new stuff at the same time my bank balance can get well and truly raped!
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:50, Reply)
I didn't realise that all houses are very slowly falling down and need constant repair. All of a sudden I look back on my renting days with a certain rose-tinted glow.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 12:59, Reply)
I could do with getting the back of my house repointed
I don't have £1200 for that
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:11, Reply)
I can't imagine how I'll ever be able to afford a house...
Current plan is the slowly slowly save for as much of a deposit as possible.
(, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 13:16, Reply)
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