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I lost the one person that I have loved most in my life.
We talked, we cried and while I like to think it was a mutual thing, it really is not. I was ready to spend the rest of my life with her, and despite her still loving me(So she says anyway), its aparantly not the right time for her to be deciding that.

So /talk, tell me about your lost loves. Any persons that you would still gladly drop everything for? Even years after?

* Sorry if this brings up bad memories.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 22:58, archived)
Nope.
Not one.

But sorry about your loss and all that.
(misusscompiler No cornflakes? No eyes? No problem !, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:00, archived)
LOL.
Anyway, nope. No regrets and no look backs or any of that shit.
(I helped save b3ta! Harold Bishop's Love Child some sort of terrifying sex magician., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:00, archived)
my lost loves are people I was too wet to make a move on
the people I actually went out with, I either got fed up with, or ended up (just the one) happily married to.

My advice is to go on holiday, somewhere hot, where lots of random people are up for holiday sex.
(I helped save b3ta! rob, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:03, archived)
I live in scotland.
Excluding the hot part, the rest if virtually at my front door.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:05, archived)
Scotland had two hot days this year
You're not trying.
(misusscompiler No cornflakes? No eyes? No problem !, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:06, archived)
True.
And with snow in November, some could argue that I have left it a little late.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:08, archived)
This is Scotland we're talking about
These are the warm days
(misusscompiler No cornflakes? No eyes? No problem !, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:10, archived)
or at least where they walk around not wearing a lot so you can have a good look.

(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:05, archived)
you can't get arrested for looking
well you can, but still, it's good sport
(I helped save b3ta! rob, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:07, archived)
Thats why
polaroid wraparound sunglasses were invented. For the discerning perv.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:19, archived)
it aint coming to my house

(I helped save b3ta! mongychops, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:07, archived)
what aint?

(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:09, archived)
the needy cunt at the start of this bollox

(I helped save b3ta! mongychops, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:11, archived)
show them your bollocks in a pint glass, that'll cheer them up! G'wan!

(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:11, archived)
whoa, i don't inject drugs anymore, those days have gone

(I helped save b3ta! mongychops, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:15, archived)
By fuck this^

(I helped save b3ta! CowJam, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:16, archived)
Only loves I lost I never really had to start with.
Chin up mate. Gonna hurt like a bitch for a while, then it will slowly get better x
(I helped save b3ta! jenpots, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:04, archived)
don't lie to him
i'm still dreadfully miserable and it's been ages
(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:27, archived)
Nah, I'm awesome. I'm a lone wolf. A solitary hawk. YEAH.

(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:04, archived)
I dont know why.
But your reply strangely amuses me, ta.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:06, archived)
I make a rubbish lone wolf.
I'm more like a solitary chuckle brother when I'm single... the shit slightly pervy one.
(I helped save b3ta! TFD is sporting this season's finest necropants, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:07, archived)
You're not pervy... you're an amazing LIGHT PREDATOR
And I wuvvoo.
(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:09, archived)
Alright bootiful?
How's FRANCE? Are you finished and graduated and back home now or have you gone back to peeping tom-cat and the tiny tot twats?

I'd love to be a light predator, a heavy predator maybe. I don't even know what a light predator is.
(I helped save b3ta! TFD is sporting this season's finest necropants, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:12, archived)
If I ever write a book about this period of my life I'm SO calling it "the peeping tom-cat and the tiny tot twats"
France is REALLY COLD. Today I spent almost 2 hours stood near horses and it was VERY COLD. in a few weeks I am back in England for Christmas.
What aboot you ey? made any M&S based decisions?
(I helped save b3ta! TopUpTheTea you ain't seen me, right?, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:45, archived)
From what i remember...
Im not a perv as much as I am an inapropriate letch.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:13, archived)
I hate to say it but that's probably worse not better.
I suggest remembering who you are in and of yourself and having some fun... that or paw at your soft and useless penis with your sweaty fingers until you don't want to kill yourself quite so much any more.
(I helped save b3ta! TFD is sporting this season's finest necropants, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:22, archived)
Yeh', me too.... but I don't think for me it was based in choice.

(I helped save b3ta! G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:09, archived)
i never thought i'd put this online, expose myself like this but hey, we are all friends
we grew up in the same town, we were best friends from the age of 5, our mums were friends and we always played together, we experienced most of growing up together, she was the the girl i said i loved before i even knew what love was, then we got in one little fight and my mum got scared, she said your moving to your uncle and aunt in bel air
(I helped save b3ta! mongychops, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:06, archived)
Best.reply.ever.
Any situation which involves inserting the lyrical funnies of the smithster is welcome.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:10, archived)
fresh

(I helped save b3ta! mongychops, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:19, archived)
FRESH !!

(I helped save b3ta! FIEND, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:32, archived)
Just think, prety soon, a man will be licking out one of her holes that you spunked in.

(I helped save b3ta! G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:06, archived)
I hope she washes first

(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:07, archived)
Is this meant to make him feel better or worse?

(misusscompiler No cornflakes? No eyes? No problem !, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:08, archived)
I donno, not entirely sure why I said it.
Hopefully whatever effect he wants, it did the oppersite.
(I helped save b3ta! G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:11, archived)
i love you sometimes
not often tho
(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:25, archived)
:S
eww, great thinking though Gonz,
(I helped save b3ta! FIEND, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:47, archived)
It's ok, I made her wash first

(I helped save b3ta! CowJam, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:51, archived)
No-one still.
Times change and the heart heals. I think I did an autism about this a while back.
You will survive, and there will always be a place in your heart for people you care about.
Go out and have fun with your friends. Best medicine in the world.
(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:06, archived)
What song is that from?

(I helped save b3ta! Harold Bishop's Love Child some sort of terrifying sex magician., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:09, archived)
'Fuck the pain away' by Peaches.

(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:11, archived)
OK, EVERYBODY LIE DOWN ON THE FLOOR, AND KEEP CALM

(I helped save b3ta! (|D[ekionplexis B3ta.com: fictional child porn is OK, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:09, archived)
eh?

(I helped save b3ta! jenpots, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:10, archived)
5:10
www.b3ta.com/links/Moohalas_Birthday_Bonanza_KLF_Stadium_House_Trilogy
(I helped save b3ta! (|D[ekionplexis B3ta.com: fictional child porn is OK, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:16, archived)
and then
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ux3u31SAeEM
(I helped save b3ta! (|D[ekionplexis B3ta.com: fictional child porn is OK, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:27, archived)
Shit, you knew that hamster too?
SHE WAS A REAL BITCH.
(I helped save b3ta! Cactus 1 doesn't care what you think on, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:10, archived)
If you're shallow enough you'll get over her in a few years
when you check her facebook and she's got fat.

I don't think I'd drop everything for anyone any more.
(I helped save b3ta! CowJam, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:13, archived)
Jammy...
That's no attitude to have...
(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:19, archived)
Well maybe it is.
How many times can someone be booted in the balls by the crushing boot of reality before they become synical or bitter?
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:21, archived)
Than you miss the opportunity
of nice people coming into your life and that's sad.
(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:22, archived)
Erm, about 7 years did it for me.
YMMV.
(I helped save b3ta! Spider Fucking Riviera got stiches for a knife wound for the first time, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:31, archived)
When I say "anyone"
I mean any of my exs. I think I've run the course with all of them.

I'm always open to someone new coming in to my life, but having finally found a job I'm really good at and enjoy I'm not sure I'd be up for dropping it.
(I helped save b3ta! CowJam, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:24, archived)
If someone wants you to drop your job for them
then they aint right in the first place.
(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:26, archived)
Well it might not be the person wanting it, more the situation suggesting it.
I left newcastle cos I met a girl in Oxford. She couldn't leave oxford so I left newcastle.

It may be more convenient for me for my new imaginary beau to move in here, but if she had a more pressing reason to stay where she was then I'd have to seriously consider moving.

I may be the best at what I do, but that's largely because there are so few people doing it. I couldn't just shift to another job elsewhere.
(I helped save b3ta! CowJam, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:30, archived)
Fairy nuff.
I'm glad I can work anywhere...But then i don't want to leave Bristol EVER!
(I helped save b3ta! Herb Alpert's Taxi Driver I have very beautiful lips, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:38, archived)
I used to think that

(I helped save b3ta! CowJam, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:50, archived)
lol
you want QOTW offtopic.
(I helped save b3ta! FIEND, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:14, archived)
No, I'm far too selfish and cynical.

(I helped save b3ta! The Mock TurtIe ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:22, archived)
what? expose your soft underbelly to the cunts on b3ta?
are you fucking STUPID?
(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:24, archived)
i thought this
everybody is being rather nice which is odd.
(I helped save b3ta! FIEND, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:31, archived)
Admittedly you have a very valid point.
But B3ta has this amazing ability to bring out good(And by good i mean not shit) in people who have a shared bad experienced.

After all, your not a bunch of fucktard 4channers.
(Nirmeth My ignore list is fucking huge. Hint., Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:31, archived)
penis

(I helped save b3ta! FIEND, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:32, archived)
back to /b with you

(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:39, archived)
shudders at the thought
no thanks.Always B3ta for me :)
(I helped save b3ta! FIEND, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:43, archived)
well if it helps i broke up with my gf of 5 years two years ago
i got very very depressed, very drunk, and generally did an epic life fail.

i think two years is supposed to be the amount of time you need to get proper back on your feet if you genuinely loved someone, but that might be bollocks.
(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:37, archived)
my advice? keep busy. spend time with your friends. don't contact her. work hard.
don't rebound onto someone inappropriate. take your time, have a cry. have a few. don't be afraid to talk about it with people, especially girls :) who appreciate a man with a heart that isn't just a fucking machine, but without overdoing it. don't bang on too much, if you can work out how to do this, let me know.. people will either understand or will remember you when it's their turn to feel the pain.
(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:48, archived)
also grow a gigantic moustache and change your name to Reginald Von Trumpet Burglar

(Mortal Wombat - he's just an excitable boy, Thu 25 Nov 2010, 23:51, archived)
Last time I got burned
I took the phrase "There's plenty more fish in the sea" a bit too literally and went fishing. Nearly got swept into the North Sea...

I'd say it sucks now but just think you will have a greater appreciation for all the songs about heartache in the future. YAY

Seriously though, you'll be fine after you've been through the motions. Just avoid the ol' reboundinator...
(AttackOfTheRobots \ =[[ õ õ ]]= /, Fri 26 Nov 2010, 1:04, archived)