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# Dear B3ta friends...
...should this be 'Links', 'Talk' or whatever? I'm never sure.
To be honest, I'm past caring. My beautiful, wonderful 'pops' passed away on Sunday and I'm devastated beyond words. I know that B3ta is not the forum for such news, but, I love it here.
There are some lovely, funny friends on here that I adore. If I don't post for a while, then you know why now.
I loved my dad with every nerve and fibre in my body.
One day, I'll find the strength to try and be funny again.
God bless you all, you're superstars xxxx

Luv

Ninj
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 1:30, archived)
# So sorry for your loss Ninj
Obviously I'm a n00b here - but you've made me feel so welcome, so I feel I should extend my sympathies.
I think this is the right place for your post - you are heart and soul of the board, and I look forward to you making a comeback - just do it when your ready. Take care matey.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 1:49, archived)
# ^same here.
The first FP I saw was yours, it was amazingly good and made me laugh.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 9:45, archived)
# :)
Thank you
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:48, archived)
# :)
Thank you matey, so very much appreciated :) x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:47, archived)
# Aw fuck! Sorry to hear this, Ninj!
I will really miss you, and the constant inspiration you provide.
Take care, my friend! :'(
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 1:59, archived)
# Bless you Atomic
Thank you so much x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:48, archived)
# I'm sorry....
Ninj...we'll keep you in our thoughts. You have knuckleheads here for you when ya need us.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 2:00, archived)
# ^ This sums it up for me
be well Ninj
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 4:26, archived)
# Thanks Ferret
X
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:49, archived)
# Thanks Hairy
:) x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:49, archived)
# I think it'd go down well on talk.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 2:12, archived)
# Big Hugs Ninj. I lost my Mum recently and as people know a couple of years back lost my loving partner James.
always here, and Facebook, for you if you need a shoulder to cry on.

Be strong it hurts, I know it hurts, but remember the good times with a smile in your heart. xxx
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 2:14, archived)
# Bless you Maiden
I know you've had more than your fair share of loss recently, so I know you know what I'm going through.
Bless you xxx
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:51, archived)
# :(
Terrible news. I can't imagine what you're going through. Shit.
I wish I could give you a big cuddle and
tell you everything's going to be alright.
So sad.






(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 2:22, archived)
# It's been said here already, take your time with all the important stuff.
But, we're going to miss you, so get your arse back here as quick as you can.

Remember, you've always put the D into :D
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 2:43, archived)
# And the gay into the Gay Shift...
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 3:28, archived)
# Bless you Moley
Much appreciated mate :) xx
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:52, archived)
# Sorry to hear you're hurting. {:-(
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 2:23, archived)
# Thank you
X
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:14, archived)
# I have no reference point for that at all, but I imagine it's a bit disconcerting.
Have a nice rest.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 3:09, archived)
# :)
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:16, archived)
# It's impossible to know what to say. Loss seems so empty and final.
Yesterday I talked with my dad, and he sounded old for the first time. He's almost 90. Last night I hardly slept as I lay awake wondering what it will be like... My only consolation is that if one hurts then they must have loved. That is something that lives on.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 3:19, archived)
# Bless you x
Cherish every precious moment x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:16, archived)
# Where's my pitcher?

You have my heartfelt sympathy,Ninj. Take as much time as you need, we'll muddle through somehow....
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 3:26, archived)
# sorry to hear about that ninj - hope you're doing ok
take care and treasure your memories of him
we'll all still be here when you're back :)
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 3:40, archived)
# Thanks alpaca
X
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:17, archived)
# That's terrible news, fella.
In very sorry for your loss. Look after yourself and your family.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 6:42, archived)
# Bless you Afinkawan
:) x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:18, archived)
# There's an extended family here ready for light banter and arfs when ready
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 7:10, archived)
# :)
Thank you x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:18, archived)
# oh mate, terrible news
hopefully soon you'll be able to celebrate his life more than mourn his loss
All the best matey
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 7:52, archived)
# Thanks Micto
Bless you :) x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:21, archived)
# Hang in there fella
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 7:58, archived)
# Cheers Toastie
X
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:21, archived)
# Sad, but
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 8:07, archived)
#
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 8:25, archived)
# Haha I couldn't possibly agree with your ham-fisted gif sentiment
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 8:32, archived)
# Sorry to hear that man
My thoughts are with you and I miss you and your funny pictures. Take care.
I'll keep ya seat warm ok.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 8:07, archived)
# Thanks Froggie
Much appreciated x
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:19, archived)
# sorry to hear the bad news
good luck with the tough times ahead, hopefully there wont be many
look forward to seeing your posts again soon
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 8:35, archived)
# Thanks Dick
Bless you :)
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:20, archived)
# : (
Sad news, hang in there fella
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 8:58, archived)
# Thank you
X
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:20, archived)
# U OK HUN??? XXXX
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 9:52, archived)
# Feel crap, lost my idol
:( xx
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:22, archived)
# Sorry Ninj :(
Condolences
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:09, archived)
# Thank you
X
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:23, archived)
# sorry for your loss Ninj
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:27, archived)
# Thanks Andy
:)
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:23, archived)
# sorry to hear about your loss :(
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 10:44, archived)
# Cheers Prodge
:)
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:23, archived)
# Sorry Ninj.
All the best fella!
*insert abuse about FAQs here for sense of semi-normality.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 11:31, archived)
# Cheers Tim
:)
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 12:24, archived)
# Stay strong, man.
Hope to see you back sooner rather than later.
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 19:15, archived)
# Bless you Cap'n :)
Xx
(, Fri 18 Oct 2013, 0:55, archived)
# *man hugs*
(, Thu 17 Oct 2013, 19:30, archived)
# Thanks Skug :)
X
(, Fri 18 Oct 2013, 0:56, archived)
# I do feel for you.
But know that you are lucky to have a father so good that you are not dancing on his grave.
That would be my recently deceased stepfather.

Your sorrow is because it was so good, my joy is because was bad, the world is a better place in my case.

Sometimes you cry because you were lucky, before your loss. This is preferable.

Carry on, I hope that you can take a few days off to mourn well.
(, Fri 18 Oct 2013, 9:16, archived)